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May 1, 2025

The Perimenopause Rollercoaster: Symptoms, Mental Health, and Finding Your Balance with Carin Parker, MSW, LCSW

by Carin Parker, MSW, LCSW

Perimenopause—the transition leading up to menopause—is often described as a rollercoaster, and that’s no exaggeration. While hot flashes and irregular periods are well-known symptoms, the mental health impact can be just as significant—and sometimes even more challenging to navigate. Let’s explore the complex relationship between perimenopause and mental health, along with treatment options to help you regain balance.

Understanding Perimenopause and Its Symptoms

Perimenopause is marked by fluctuating hormone levels, primarily estrogen and progesterone. These hormonal changes can trigger a wide range of physical and emotional symptoms, including:

  • Irregular Periods – Changes in cycle length, flow, and frequency
  • Hot Flashes – Sudden feelings of warmth, often with sweating and flushing
  • Night Sweats – Hot flashes that occur during sleep
  • Sleep Disturbances – Trouble falling asleep or staying asleep
  • Vaginal Dryness – Reduced lubrication and discomfort during intercourse
  • Changes in Libido – Either a decrease or increase in sexual desire
  • Cognitive Changes – “Brain fog,” trouble concentrating, and memory lapses
  • Mood Swings – Difficulty regulating emotions, resulting in irritability, anxiety, or depression

The Mental Health Impact

The hormonal fluctuations of perimenopause can significantly affect mental health, often intensifying pre-existing conditions or triggering new ones. Common challenges during this stage include:

  • Anxiety – Heightened worry, nervousness, or panic attacks
  • Depression – Persistent sadness, low motivation, or feelings of hopelessness
  • Irritability – Increased frustration or emotional reactivity
  • Emotional Lability – Rapid and unpredictable mood shifts
  • Cognitive Difficulties – Problems with concentration, memory, or processing information

It’s important to recognize that these emotional changes are not “just in your head.” They are deeply connected to the biological changes occurring within your body.

Treatment Options: Finding Your Path to Balance

Fortunately, a variety of treatment options can help manage perimenopausal symptoms and support your mental well-being:

  • Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) – HRT can reduce hot flashes, night sweats, and vaginal dryness, and may also improve mood and sleep. Talk with your provider to weigh the benefits and risks.
  • Low-Dose Antidepressants – Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) and serotonin-norepinephrine reuptake inhibitors (SNRIs) can help regulate mood, ease anxiety and depression, and may also provide relief from hot flashes.
  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) – These therapies offer effective strategies to manage emotional challenges and improve resilience.
  • Lifestyle Changes
    • Regular Exercise – Boosts mood, improves sleep, and enhances overall well-being
    • Healthy Diet – A balanced diet rich in fruits, vegetables, and whole grains can support hormone health. Meeting with a registered dietitian can be helpful for guidance.
    • Stress Management – Yoga, meditation, mindfulness, and deep breathing can reduce anxiety and emotional strain
    • Sleep Hygiene – Prioritizing restful sleep improves mood and cognitive function
    • Support Groups – Connecting with others going through perimenopause can offer emotional support and practical tips
  • Alternative and Holistic Therapies – Some women find relief through acupuncture, supplements, or other alternative approaches. Always consult your doctor before starting a new therapy.

Seeking Professional Help

If you’re experiencing significant mental health symptoms during perimenopause, don’t hesitate to seek professional support. A healthcare provider can evaluate your symptoms, rule out other conditions, and help you find a tailored treatment plan.

At Avance Care, we’re here to support you. Our primary care providers, dietitians, and behavioral health therapists work collaboratively to help you manage perimenopausal symptoms and embrace lifestyle changes that promote well-being.

Carin Parker, MSW, LCSW has a passion and desire to help women who are experiencing perimenopause and menopause.

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